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What people say about Tryst
We love hearing from people who use and love Tryst! Here are some of the things people have said about us.
@WeAreTryst has the best customer service out of any company I have ever contacted. Seriously. They consistently have thorough and caring responses to all of my questions. I appreciate them so much for service even beyond the customer service of course 🙏🏻
August 2021 | via X (formerly Twitter)
You guys have THE BEST customer support EVER. And I don't just mean of provider sites - I mean of ANY site I've ever worked with! I received the blog link and other info, which is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you so much! Since I upgraded to the Standard Plan, I've been busier than a one-legged man in a bum kicking contest. (Which was another of your suggestions that I had emailed about previously.)
January 2023 | via Email
Tryst.link has really restored my faith/trust in paid advertisement. I felt really violated by paid platforms after Fosta/Sesta. Tryst is worth EVERY PENNY PLUS MORE. Gladly pay my membership EVERY MONTH 🥰
September, 2020 | via X (formerly Twitter)
I absolutely LOVE you guys! I have NEVER had a better forum to advertise on, and I've done this over 10 years.
March 2022 | via Email
What to expect when booking a sex worker?
We know how daunting it can be to see a sex worker for the first time, so we've put together a super handy Client Guide to help ensure everything runs smoothly. Here are a few quick tips about what to expect!
🔍 Screening
Many workers will require their clients to submit themselves to some level of screening. This process will vary from sex work to sex worker and will often involve some form of identification.
💸 Payment
Many workers prefer cash payments. But some may have other preferences for how they receive payments and deposits, such as via crypto-currency.
⏰ Time
Just as many other freelancers, sex workers do not work 24/7 and may not be available exactly when you want them. Please be courteous towards their listed availabilities and allow a reasonable amount of time for them to respond.
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How does Tryst.link support sex workers?
Unlike many other advertising platforms, Tryst.link is run by sex workers and technologists as an alternative to sites like Backpage.com and others which have felt the wrath of FOSTA/SESTA. We hold the unique privilege of having direct ties to both the tech and sex industry, which has allowed us to build our products in-house, bootstrapped and without outside funding. We put sex workers first in a way that they haven't been by an escort directory before. We encourage feedback from both workers and clients on what they need and want from the platform and we consistently consult with sex workers and sex worker organisations on the development of our product. We're in it for the long run.
Product: The involvement of sex workers in our product development is vital to ensure that we are helping workers inside our business. We are still a very young project but thus far we have included feature sets that allow more options around gender, and the ability for trans folk to list their gender alongside their trans status if they wish. We also have implemented a free plan which allows those who may not be able to afford it, to have a verified ad. We have in house support which is free for all Tryst members, client or worker.
Financially: As of August 2020, and despite Covid-19, we have supported and donated to over 20 organisations based in harm reduction, sex work and education. You can find a full list of these organisations here. We strongly believe in continuing to give back to this community and helping fund the incredible organisers dedicated to fighting for the rights of sex workers around the globe. These activists are experts in their field and their voices need to be amplified. You can find a full list here.
Activism: We usually like to leave this one to the experts who have overseen the industry for decades, but given our background and expertise in tech, we do often speak on digital rights panels and the like to help bridge the gap between the tech and sex work communities. We believe that many tech founders lack the right education to properly understand the effects of censorship and the erasure of marginalised communities. We hope that by helping and guiding them towards experts and activists that this will lead to long term positive change.
Friends of Tryst
Through the development of Tryst we've worked with a number of wonderful organizations to promote and grow our platform. These are just a handful of the generous sites who have lent a helping hand. From all of us at Tryst, we would like to say thank you!
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